Thursday, May 26, 2016
Sunday, April 10, 2016
Life has taught me a lot, it has broken me, hurt me, made me think, "Is it worth it?" Life has mocked me, made me question myself, "What is so important about it?" Sometimes I am willing to get up and be strong, be a fighter, but then life hits you, makes you a loser. You wonder how come everyone is making something out of nothing, how come I can't even see the light at the end of the tunnel? How come I keep failing? When the heavy weight of burden falls on you, you're expected to carry on as if it's nothing. "Be strong," you hear people say, but its okay to be weak, just not all the time.
Life is an easy word to say but a heavy weight to carry when it's been given to you.
But all in all I have learned to never let anyone bring you down, never feel less of yourself when they point at you and mock you, stand up and prove to them you can be a better person.
Everyone in your life at one point in time will disappoint you, leave you to drown in your worries; others would pretend to listen so they can use you as an example in their own lives. Others would want to be there so they can constantly remind you of your weakness, tell you you're a failure. The only way to surprise them is to succeed, be successful so they can be scared. Be happy; happiness comes from you alone; pray, speak to Allah, cry your heart out, for He alone cares about you, He created you, He knows your worries. Life has taught me to be wise, be prayerful, speak only when it's necessary, and find what makes you happy and do it even if they laugh at you at first. Nobody holds the key to your happiness except you. Never give up. So what has life taught you?
Friday, April 1, 2016
Whatever you're up to this weekend do have a splendid one, relax with the family go out have fun but be careful. Visit someone you haven't seen in a longtime, read a book or sleep all through. In all have a blessed and pretty weekend. muaah.
Fast forward to our modern day life. Marriage these days is no longer what it used to be, it's not an institution anymore but a war zone; one minute you're so in love you feel you can not breathe without each other, the next minute you cannot stand to be next to each other.Maybe its our mentality or the way the world is evolving now, or the idea we put in our heads that one cannot figure it out.
In Africa where I grew up we have a saying "its the woman that makes the home." It's the direction you move a car it would go along, if you're at peace with yourself so would your home be. Some of us do not realize the power Allah has given you as a woman and a mother. You are unique and special.
Two kings have never ruled a kingdom successfully. There are bound to be issues from time to time, let it be equal, and sometimes you fail. But don't give up, try again;how many times are you willing to try before you give up? These days we think about divorce more than we think about amending it.You forget the kids suffer. In some cases we don't even do it right; you bring them into your mess and fill them up with your hate and change their perception about certain things.
Sometimes we need to ask ourselves, "What is it I want in life? How do I intend to go about a certain situation if I fail in it?" Most importantly pray about it, for with prayers you can never go wrong, and try and make your business your business; it's not everyone that shares the same goal with you, or everyone that smiles at you that wishes you a happy ending.
Fight for what you believe is right and learn to be responsible when you know you're wrong about something. Just because Mrs A.'s husband is always buying her all she needs doesn't mean your own marriage isn't perfect;how do you know if they are compensating for something they lack and you don't know about? Be there for each other, support each other, and if you have tired and it's not working talk to someone. Only after all roads have been explored you can look to the last option you have.Try not to drag each other through the mud and cause more damage.
Be yourself, think about what you want and how you want your home to be. Think about the later effect if you make certain wrong decisions. Marriage is not a game, it's not for the weak-minded, and sometimes love is not enough. You have to add all other aspects to make it work.
Think about it, pray about it, and be wise and prepared before you leap. You don not want to enter and suddenly find yourself running back out. If you want it to be forever act like it, and if you're not certain don't do it.
Monday, March 21, 2016
Don't feel bad see them as your motivator that one person that tells you as it is a secret fan. If you feel when you do something right and you have this feeling of satisfaction and motivation keep on going don’t stop provided it is a good thing not a bad thing, it’s okay to be down sometimes but don't let it become a habit keep moving, keep walking let them talk it shouldn't stop you be motivated.
Wednesday, March 2, 2016
I love when a lady looks good I love looking good, it's a good business in fact its damn good one can't go out looking like grandma from the 16th century. But has fashion goes you have to spend a little to look good so here are some fashion extravaganza, I put together enjoy.
And when I grow up I want to be rich yeah right like I am not grown already enjoy don't mind silly me.
Gucci is one of my favorite designers I remember growing up, that was one of the first designer item I got from my mum it was a mini satchel black in color with the red and green lines on it. Am quite sure she can't remember but I did treasure that bag till the bag spoke to me in tears, saying please let me go I can't go on again lmao whatttt? that tells you how long I used it for don't judge just move along okay.
$55,124 $ 1,500
Ashi studio couture oh my oh my I love love his designs its just something else for me who loves modest fashion anytime any day, this speaks to me. I imagine wearing one of his designs with my
Hijab and just looking fly beautiful collections.
For me fashion is simplicity, elegance, grace and modesty you do not have to look naked to look good. And it doesn't have to be expensive before people can appreciate it, the way you wear it and carry it makes it look good. These are few of my favorite picks, when I grow up I should be able to afford these things lol oh well ciao.
Friday, February 26, 2016
I just want to say if you’re a parent and you know your doing a damn good job at it pat yourself at the shoulder and smile cause that's one job that needs an award a special one, and it’s a joy to see your young ones growing up it, gives you a sense of pride and a warm feeling in the heart.